Mom, Part MCMXIVV

Mom at the end of May-- in the hospital at UAMS
Mom at the beginning of July-- at the nursing home

I finally got the situation at least partially resolved today-- I spoke with the doctor and the nurse. They came down specifically to talk to me because I went to admin about the problem. Turns out that they have been calling GF whenever I call with a question and telling him to tell me the answer. He doesn't call me and let me know anything because he doesn't hear what they're saying..

There is also the issue of my mother only hearing what she wants to hear, and only telling me parts of the story. I havent' had any idea of what has really been happening out here. This doc is doing the best he can with what he has to work with.

At least now he knows that I am the person to contact, and I will talk to the rest of the family. That will take some of the pressure off, and hopefully they can do the surgery in 2 weeks. I have a much better feeling about everything that's going on now--

So, it's off to the nursing home to tell mother what's going on.. may God have mercy on my soul.. lol

Yesterday she told me that she'd never forgive me for putting her in a nursing home. As if I had anything to say in any of the decisions that have been made. Argh.